Frequently asked questions

  • I cannot connect to my partner.

    Please make sure you have a stable internet connection when inviting a partner, or when accepting an invite from your partner.
    When accepting an invite, make sure you’re logging in with the correct email address. You can check your email address in the Profile section within the app.
    If you’re still having issues, please contact me via the feedback form in-app and I’ll try to help!

  • Is it possible to create bad habits?

    Yes, this is possible!
    When creating the habit, select "at most" instead of "at least" for the amount.
    For the reward you can select "if done less than X times", and for the punishment select either "if done more than X times" or "for every time".

  • Is it possible to create one time tasks?

    Yes, this is possible!
    When creating the habit, just select "Custom" instead of "Daily", then select the date when the task is due in the calendar.

  • Can I have multiple partners?

    Yes, this is possible!
    You can add any number of dominants and/or submissives to your account.
    Each partner will have their own, separate set of habits, rewards, punishments etc. and you'll be able to switch between them by tapping on your partner's name at the top center of your screen.

  • If I have multiple partners, can they see each other?

    If you have multiple partners, they will each have their own separate set of habits, rewards, punishments etc. By default they will not be able to see or interact with each other.
    However, if you've added multiple submissives, you will see an option to let them see each other in the Partners page.

  • How do I use the app as a switch couple?

    You can simply add your partner as both a dominant and a submissive in the Partners section. You will both have your own separate set of habits, rewards, punishments etc. and will be able to switch between them by tapping on your partner's name at the top center of your screen.

  • How do I change my role from dominant to submissive or vice versa?

    The role you chose when signing up for the app is only relevant for the tutorial at the start. You can add any number of submissive and/or dominant partners as you like in the Partners page, regardless of the role you started with.

  • We live in different timezones. How do I configure my habits?

    By default, each habit uses the timezone of the person who created the habit. However, when creating or editing a habit, you can select a different timezone.
    Often, you’d want habits to be set in the submissive’s timezone.

  • How do I organize my habits into categories?

    You can organize your habits (or rewards / punishments) into categories by long pressing on the habit, then pressing "Choose category".

  • Can I buy a subscription for my partner as well?

    Yes, you can do this here. You can log in with your own email address and password, then select who you want to buy the subscription for.

  • Do you have an affiliate program?

    Yes! Are you an influencer or a kink educator looking to promote the app?
    You can apply for an affiliate link here.