The Obedient Season #2
A FREE ritual playbook
for kinksters who want more and aren't afraid to name it
The Obedient Season is back. This edition is about Craving — the desire that hums underneath your dynamic, the wanting you carry through your day, the ache of something unmet that keeps pulling you back.
Whether you're craving more intensity, more structure, more connection, or just craving the version of your dynamic that used to set you on fire… we made this for you.
Inside: articles from kink educators and creators, guided worksheets, a scene generator, reflection prompts, and a Community Voices section featuring submissions from readers like you.
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What will you find inside The Obedient Season #2?
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Before you can feed a craving, you have to name it. This section helps you identify what's missing in your dynamic — not with shame, but with curiosity. Through personal essays, a Craving Inventory for subs and Doms, and perspectives on mismatched desire, solo craving, and neurodivergent longing, these pages ask the question most of us avoid: What do I actually want?
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This is where craving becomes a tool. A scene generator built around desire and denial. An article on what Doms crave (and why they never say it). Practical ideas for using anticipation, withholding, and reward to reignite the spark in your dynamic. If the first section helped you name the hunger, this one helps you play with it.
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The emotional heart of the issue. This section holds the pieces that might make you cry, screenshot a paragraph, or finally say the thing you've been holding back. Articles on craving when your body won't cooperate, the desires you keep to yourself, craving after loss, and the vulnerability of hearing your partner say "I need more." These pages aren't about fixing anything. They're about being honest.
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For the first time, The Obedient Season features submissions from our readers — written reflections, poetry, photography, and art responding to one prompt: "What are you craving in your dynamic right now?" This section belongs to you. Submit your answer here
Meet the Writers
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Maja Metera
Maja is the content lead and educator here, at Obedience. Her job is creating and managing the content we share through our social media, email and blog to ensure anyone, with any level of experience, can learn about kink. She has a background in health communication, sexology and sex education, and has been featured in publications such as Vogue Poland. She is a collared sub-leaning switch with a special interest in experimentalism.
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Micah Brown
Micah is a copywriter at Obedience. He has been involved in the kink lifestyle for three decades. He's a proud Dom to his sub to whom he is married, an active sadist to her masochist, and a fan of bondage, sensation play, impact play, sharps and blood play, and a variety of role-play.
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Aftershare
Zach Evans, known as aftershare on social media, is a content creator that uses skits to show relatable, more human moments that happen in 24/7 Dom/sub dynamics. He is currently working on projects in voice acting, audio erotica, and writing a book.
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LilithFoxx | Board-Certified Sexologist, Sexuality Educator, and Intimacy Coach
Lilithfoxx is a board certified sexologist, educator, and intimacy coach who specializes in kink, nonmonogamy, and the psychology of desire. She has taught over 100 workshops on sexuality, consent, and relationships, and her insights have been featured in outlets including Cosmopolitan, Men’s Health, and HuffPost. Through her writing and teaching, she helps people explore pleasure, power, and connection with curiosity and confidence.
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Aidan Sunassee
Aidan Sunassee is a certified sexologist, kink consultant, and researcher focusing on trauma, healing, kink, and the ways they intersect with and influence one another. He is part of the APA Division 44 Taskforce on Kink and BDSM, a TASHRA board member, and an educator at the Center of Positive Sexuality. Beyond this, Aidan also runs the Dominant Discourse page, which focuses on providing resources and support to Dominants and other kinksters navigating their identities and dynamics.
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The Poly Kink Therapist
Psychotherapist & relationship educator focused on ethical relationships. Direct, practical tools for communication, boundaries, attachment, and trust in monogamy and non-monogamy.
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Everyday Submission
Divine is the creator of Everyday Submission, where she redefines submission as something you live rather than something you perform. Her work supports women in grounding their submissive identity into real life - helping them stay connected to it through every season, shift, + challenge
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Amanda Dames, The Kink Consultant
Board-certified sexologist and Somatica TM Certified Sex and Relationship coach specializing in Kink and BDSM. Amanda Dames coaches couples and individuals who want to better understand their desire and use that understanding to build their dream sex life with their partner(s)
