75 Hard/Soft Obedience Challenge
75 Days. Two Paths.
One Goal: Transform Your Obedience
Choose Discipline on Your Terms
Inspired by the viral 75 Hard trend, this challenge adapts the structure and focus for BDSM dynamics. Whether you thrive under strict rules or need room for flexibility, there’s a path for you:
💎 Hard Path – High intensity, zero excuses, start over if you miss a day.
🌸 Soft Path – Flexible swaps, grace days, and progress over perfection.
Your Daily Non-Negotiables
Core Obedience Task – Rituals or protocols that affirm your role.
Service or Support Act – Tangible actions that benefit your partner/Dom.
Every day for 75 days, you’ll commit to four core actions:
Which path is for you?
Hard Path:
Zero tolerance for missed days—miss a task, start over.
Predefined task list—no substitutions.
Daily proof or report to your Dominant
Mind & Body Alignment – Movement, hydration, or mindfulness practice.
Because obedience is built one day at a time.
Soft Path:
Up to 3 grace days over 75 days.
Flexible task swaps when life happens.
Focus on progress over perfection.
Connection Check-In – Daily affirmation of trust and connection.
👉 Either way, you’ll end with stronger rituals, deeper trust, and lasting habits
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Are You Going Hard or Soft?
Your rules. Your rituals. Your challenge.
The only wrong choice is not starting.