Chapter 3: Safety and Consent in Kink

Before diving deeper, it is essential to understand who you are and what you truly desire. This chapter is about self-discovery: finding out what excites you, what your boundaries are, and how your personal experiences shape your desires. We guide you through a step-by-step process to explore your inner world, with resources to help heal past wounds and deepen your understanding of your kinky self.

3.1 Your Guide to Safety

Before we jump into practice - especially with others - we will provide you with rules of thumb when it comes to staying safe.

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3.2 Alternative Headspaces in BDSM

How do alternative headspaces such as subspace and Domspace impact kinkster’s ability to play?

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3.3 Aftercare 101

In this lesson, we are covering the details of aftercare - a core safety element of a scene

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3.4 Assignment Chapter 3

Create a “trigger map” with visual cues or icons to represent your emotional and physical boundaries

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