Chapter 4: Starting a D/s Dynamic

We discuss finding a partner who shares your interests and values, setting up the foundation of your dynamic, and creating a BDSM contract that clearly outlines the rules, boundaries, and desires of all parties. We also explore the significance of collars and what they represent in a D/s relationship.

4.1 Finding a Kinky Partner

In this lesson, we outline how to look for a possible D/s partner online and offline

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4.2 Talking About Kink

In this lesson, we explain how to approach the conversation about introducing (new) kink into your existing relationship.

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4.3 Starting a Power Exchange Dynamic

Unfortunately, D/s is not “plug and play” and requires some effort to set up - here’s how to talk about setting it up.

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4.4 Cementing Your D/s Dynamic

Here, you will find out in detail how to set up a power exchange contract and what’s up with collaring as the desired state to be in.

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4.5 All Scene "How to's"

Here, you will find out how to negotiate and plan a scene.

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4.6 Assignment Chapter 4

Use included PDFs to reflect and prepare to start your dream dynamic.

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