Chapter 4: Starting a D/s Dynamic

4.3 Starting a Power Exchange Dynamic

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But before you reach for the handcuffs and pinwheels, you need to start talking, talk, and then talk some more. Open dialogue is essential for the dynamic to well… work. But what should you cover in the initial conversations?

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4.4 Cementing Your D/s Dynamic